Open-Minded
One of the key requirements for spiritual development is being open-minded. A close-minded person might have his path right in front of him, but will ignore it. So before any real spiritual development, you need to become open-minded. Of course, close-minded people probably are not reading this so those who are may have to pass on these hints to their close-minded friends. Some simple things you can do to help open a closed mind:
1) Go shopping in a store you've never been in, especially a specialty shop with a specialty you are not really interested in. See what kind of people shop there. The answer may surprise you! Some examples:
A. If you would never change a headlight in your car yourself, go to a car parts store and look around
B. If you think new age is goofy, go to a crystal store or some other type of new age shop
C. If you think all Bible-thumping Jesus freaks are the same, go to Christian book store
D. If the idea of shopping for lingerie for your wife/girl repels you, go to Victoria's Secret.
One of my most interesting shopping trips was to a Harley-Davidson Accessories shop in Reno, Nevada. It features leather jackets, clothes, and other accessories for motorcycle fans. I found only a small percentage of the shoppers I say there were the Hell's Angels type I expected.
2) Make friends with someone from a different background. Another country, religion, language. Or attend a meeting for such people.
3) Attend a church you've never been to before. Some years ago I took a bus trip through Italy. Even though I'm not Catholic, I did take the tour of the Vatican. It was fascinating. A lot of history and great art there.
4) Take a vacation to a place you've never been to, preferably, someplace a little different from you usual vacation.
5) Use a blog searching or indexing service to find blogs about subjects you think don't interest you and read some entries.
I could probably come up with a dozen other things, but I think that is enough for starters.
1) Go shopping in a store you've never been in, especially a specialty shop with a specialty you are not really interested in. See what kind of people shop there. The answer may surprise you! Some examples:
A. If you would never change a headlight in your car yourself, go to a car parts store and look around
B. If you think new age is goofy, go to a crystal store or some other type of new age shop
C. If you think all Bible-thumping Jesus freaks are the same, go to Christian book store
D. If the idea of shopping for lingerie for your wife/girl repels you, go to Victoria's Secret.
One of my most interesting shopping trips was to a Harley-Davidson Accessories shop in Reno, Nevada. It features leather jackets, clothes, and other accessories for motorcycle fans. I found only a small percentage of the shoppers I say there were the Hell's Angels type I expected.
2) Make friends with someone from a different background. Another country, religion, language. Or attend a meeting for such people.
3) Attend a church you've never been to before. Some years ago I took a bus trip through Italy. Even though I'm not Catholic, I did take the tour of the Vatican. It was fascinating. A lot of history and great art there.
4) Take a vacation to a place you've never been to, preferably, someplace a little different from you usual vacation.
5) Use a blog searching or indexing service to find blogs about subjects you think don't interest you and read some entries.
I could probably come up with a dozen other things, but I think that is enough for starters.








I think this is excellent advice! I deal with peoples misconceptions often and think if more people did this they might make less assumptions about people or things they don't know. I have A LOT of tattoos. When I meet people they almost always say or ask things like "Do you ride your own bike (motorcycle or do you ride on the back?" They assume I'm a biker. Answer niether. "Your husband is a tattoo artists right?" Wrong, my husband is a software engineer with no tattoos or piercings. I once heard one women say to someone as I walked by "You know she's never worked a day in her life" What!!! Ah, WRONG! The other big one is teh assumption that I'm a party girl. Again, very wrong. People tend to think that all people should think, believe and do as tehy do or they are wrong or something is wrong with them. You might be surprised at the wonderful people out there that may have a different life than you or look different or believe something different but everyone has that right. The world would be a much better place if all people opened their minds and hearts to others and respect all life.
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