Some people insist God is Male.  Others that the Goddess is female.
Some just question "which is it?".

Asking if God is male or female is like asking "Is the wind male or female?", "Is gravity male or female?".

God is NOT a person, sorry - get over it!

God is a universal force and being.

Or to put it another way:
 Male is a limitation.
Female is a limitation.
God has no limitations.